OMG! I am really fed up with answering this question. I got
married and going to complet 2 years. Actually In this society, this
question will be asked to a newly married couple with the intent of
knowing whether they have build their baby or not. But the sad thing is
that the couples have to answer that question even though they haven’t
evaluated that question.
Yes, We have not yet started the process. But we have already started
saying “NO” for that question. Actually our answer should be “Not
Applicable”. But generally, we didn’t get this option for that question.
We have to say “YES” or “NO”.
Actually I have so many dreams. First I want to enjoy my love life
with my wife, want to go to foreign countries with her, want to dance
with her, want to play with her etc. If I said this frankly to my
elder’s, then they will started prioritizing my task like “See planning to a child should be your first task with highest priority.
All the other things u mentioned were only secondary tasks! So first
try to complete your primary task”. This is the advice which I usually
get from my elders if I said my plans to them.
Actually the desire of becoming a parent should come from my heart.
But now it becomes a pressurized task for me like “University”
syllabus which i need to complete that within 3 or 5 months of time
(whichever is earlier) after my marriage.
Before my marriage, I was a kind of person who was enjoying a lot in
whatever I was doing. No one will monitor me. No one will give me tasks
to do. No one will evaluate my activities. I have never worked under
pressure in my personal life. I was doing whatever I felt was right.
But after my marriage, everything becomes upside down for me. Now I
am running to get the so called “Social Status” in my life. I have to
build a house, have to buy a car, have to make investments on gold and
have to give plan for a baby ASAP. Actually I am already working under
this much of pressure. So if anyone wants to ask such kind of question
to a newly married couple , please provide them with the following
options.
Question : Any Good News?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Not applicable.
